The little things in life. =)

老爸，注册婚礼的日子将近了。 多一个星期，女儿就要注册结婚了。你知道吗?  我想这身最大的遗憾，是没能让你看到我结婚。对不起，小时候扭曲的感情路让你担心了不少。 今晚，特别睡不着。也许是7月的最后一天，我却觉得这个月没好好地花时间和爸爸的回忆一起共处吧。骤然回忆起爸爸那一则whatsapp voice message, 跟着妹妹说 "妹妹，爸爸回来了。早一点回来 hor" 我这个女儿，怎么就那么没花时间陪你啊。。 4年了，好快啊。 今晚的我，站在你熟悉的角落，怀念你。回想小时候的记忆，突然有一些伤感我就要离开这个有着很多我跟爸爸的回忆的家。我回想着小时候kaypoh  地站在你身边眺望窗外，不知道你在看什么。在你身边陪你看报纸。回想着就你和我那一次去钓鱼，深夜坐在 kelong  尾端吹风，看星星。遗憾地看着原来矗立着你的树的那块地。老爸，我真的很像你。看着小树病到一个程度，看不下去就得马上去纠正和治愈。也不管那么多。我在想，小时候的我帮你扶着楼梯。当你认识的人经过时，应该会让你 paiseh 的时候，小小的我是否有给于你一点勇气呢? 老爸啊，妹妹很想你。我好希望我现在和以后都能做个让你欣慰的女儿哦。妹妹会帮你照顾妈妈的。在我们的心里，老爸你还切切实实地活着。我想，你应该会是一个很可爱的阿公哦 ❤ 爸爸，有空回来看看哦。 ♡

The most beautiful thing about you dear dear... is how you don't even see how truly kind and wonderful you are. I am so lucky to be yours. It's 2 days away from our key collection day dear dear, and I cannot wait to spend my life with you. ♡♡ I love you so so much!  These days I find myself harbouring a prayer. I pray, that love surrounds the people I love; may they never be alone in their times of hardship; may they always be able to find the strength within to overcome life's adversities.  ♡  

We are home lo dear dear!!!!! ❤ 我等你等了好久哦! Today is the day my dear dear got down on one knee, it's the day we look deeply into each other's eyes and I 认定这辈子我非你莫属了.  I love how this photo pretty much sums up the beauty and unique things in our relationship.  The very place we spent so many evenings having dinner and supper, our obsession with little woody, my dear dear's inventiveness with the fairy lights, our impromptu nature and ability to make the most of any situation, and the blend of active and cultural that is underlying our individual characters.  Beyond the initial shock (dear dear never warn me!!! I was not well dressed!!! XD), when we had some time to ourselves in private, I contemplated in silence and was extremely contented that I could be here right next to you. I am grateful for all the quiet moments of understanding, and I know we will have the courage, tenacity and love, to weather through anything that life throws at us; because no matter wha...

Journey journey journey!  March 2021 flew by in a flash. My life turned again, swifter than ever, but smoother and the happier than I ever expected.  Amidst all the listing, planning, budgeting, evaluation and decision making, I love how we start to come tgt as a team to solve and talk through issues together. :) dear dear,  I'm thankful that we are going through this journey together. I'm thankful for you.  What have I learnt about us as a couple:  - we have very similar priorities  - we are both highly practical, but able to retain our sense of fun  - we are highly motivated and task orientated (we can realy keep going!!)  - our problem solving method is to break down an issue into micro parts and talk through it - we need to take more conscious breaks to exercise self care and keep building up the relationship  - we are pretty much perfect tgt, and need to learn to exercise some humility XD =P . KIDDING - we really lucked out in this home ...

这首歌听了好多次，每次听了还是会联想到爸爸，段段落泪。多希望妹妹嫁人那一天，可以唱这首歌给你听哦。可惜，就只能在幻想和愿望的国际唱给爸爸咯。 别人的 你講人生沒願望 哪有趣味 半好半歹 攏是滋味 [..] 你講人生愛歡喜 才有趣味  [..] 是好是歹 攏是自己 今仔日 你牽阮的手 你疼阮的心 我攏知影 阮不是別人的 免煩惱傷心話 我永遠是你的 是你的寶貝 明仔載 換我牽你的手 我疼你的心 乎你知影 阮不是別人的 免感覺會歹勢 我永遠是你的 是你的心肝寶貝

Still peeved at myself for taking all of 3 decades to figure out my own life!!!  I feel like Hong Dae Yong, ' you have wasted your life' =.=.  Fine. Keep going, figure out how to lead a happy fulfilling life that let's me continue giving back to my family. 

老爸， 2月在我们的人生中是一个喜悲参半的一个月。 这个月见证你我的生日，见证了你的过世，间接也见证了我们家因此的转变。 爸爸，谢谢你从小就那么疼爱我，宠我。我最想念的，是很多日常的小事。星期天，一起去吃早餐，我的第一次吃 zhwee kwei, 我们星期天的米饭炸鸡翅，都是我好珍惜的回忆。爸爸的聪明，幽默，合群，是我们家无所取代的。新年初二你也在吧。我们都想你想到。。。 希望你过得不错哦。 不要太担心我们，我们会照顾mummy.  爱你的妹妹

红彤彤的脸颊 湿淋淋的衬衫 心满满地盼家 期待将来的旅程 ♡

Dear dear, thank you for being by my side emotionally when I needed to make hard decisions that I didn't really want to make. I guess I'm accustomed to being a decision maker and driver in most situations. That's one of my most dreaded things, but it's something I often had to do. I always hated it because I felt alone and a bit helpless needing to make decisions on my own. But you were there for me, the worst didn't feel that bad..  好快哦，我们8个月了! 😍😍 8 months on and I still feel like I have endless things to discover about you, endless things to discuss with you. 8 months on, and I'm glad our love is growing and growing. Dear dear,  I feel like 2020 had been quite a rough one for you. Hang in there, jiayou jiayou and remember that I'm always rooting, cheering and screaming for you!! You're my most special present from 2020, and we will be each other's future from hereon.  Thank you for being you my love. I love you 🙆‍♀️🙆‍♂️❤ 新年快乐! ^^ -o...

Have you reached hamster heaven yet man man? I hope hamster heaven has load of blueberries, fresh fruits and fresh veggie for you, and lots of ledges for you to lean and sleep on! 

满满呀，mummy loves you. I hope you know that! You will always have a special place in my heart.  I am gonna miss you so badly sweet little one.  I'm gonna miss your cute little face, cute little cuddles and cute little feet that you would allow me to touch and hold haha. Although I imagine u can't be enjoying it.  I'm gonna miss your shy but sweet nature, your gentle beady little eyes that always look for me.  I'm gonna miss your timid little hunch melting into a comfortable and contented prata on my hand, especially when your are enjoying your neck massages, ear and belly rubs..   I'm gonna miss how you trust and love me unconditionally, never bit me even a single time, and allowed me to manipulate your body and feed you meds this way and that, even though it must be super uncomfortable.  Thank you for everything you have given me my dear 满满.  Thank you for being my little one whom I look forward to seeing at home after work. Thank you for letting m...

Sometimes, life surprises with the most unplanned sweetness. What a beautiful beautiful day!!  Hehe, without travelling out of the country, I can already see how the 2 of us will travel and live the rest of our lives tgt.  Thank you for the wonderful day dear; discovering new and indie corners of this place we call home. ^^

Silly it's just a dream Is it because you have been handling man man And she had been in pain Technically if you 1000x man man She might actually look like a bear And we seldom see hamsters blink So that could be the eyelid part Last night, I had yet another one of my bizarre dreams. These dreams have always been very disturbing for me. I'm not sure if they bode well or otherwise. But more often than not, I have absolutely no idea where they come from. I feel embarrassed to tell them to anyone, and I rarely ever do. But somehow I told dear dear today. It must have been highly irrational to you on 2 counts: first, the dream contents are just downright weird. Second, I am irrationally disturbed by something unreal. But nonetheless, dear dear didn't judge me, and listened and empathetically came up with something to 安抚我.  Dear ah, 自小就懂得要坚强，自强，独立，勇敢，或至少改装出这模样的我，从来没有被人那这么样疼爱过。谢谢你。I take this moment to give thanks to the man who gives me much more than i can ever dream of. I love...