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11 06 21

We are home lo dear dear!!!!! ❤

我等你等了好久哦! Today is the day my dear dear got down on one knee, it's the day we look deeply into each other's eyes and I 认定这辈子我非你莫属了. 

I love how this photo pretty much sums up the beauty and unique things in our relationship.  The very place we spent so many evenings having dinner and supper, our obsession with little woody, my dear dear's inventiveness with the fairy lights, our impromptu nature and ability to make the most of any situation, and the blend of active and cultural that is underlying our individual characters. 

Beyond the initial shock (dear dear never warn me!!! I was not well dressed!!! XD), when we had some time to ourselves in private, I contemplated in silence and was extremely contented that I could be here right next to you. I am grateful for all the quiet moments of understanding, and I know we will have the courage, tenacity and love, to weather through anything that life throws at us; because no matter what we choose to do, I know we will be doing it together. I'm home, truly. 

Thank you for being my steady anchor my love, here's to the lifetime of growth and love that we uniquely call ours. ❤ I love you. 

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