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Journey journey journey! 

March 2021 flew by in a flash. My life turned again, swifter than ever, but smoother and the happier than I ever expected. 

Amidst all the listing, planning, budgeting, evaluation and decision making, I love how we start to come tgt as a team to solve and talk through issues together. :) dear dear,  I'm thankful that we are going through this journey together. I'm thankful for you. 

What have I learnt about us as a couple: 
- we have very similar priorities 
- we are both highly practical, but able to retain our sense of fun 
- we are highly motivated and task orientated (we can realy keep going!!) 
- our problem solving method is to break down an issue into micro parts and talk through it
- we need to take more conscious breaks to exercise self care and keep building up the relationship 
- we are pretty much perfect tgt, and need to learn to exercise some humility XD =P . KIDDING
- we really lucked out in this home journey, and i count my blessings everyday for all of this. 
- dear dear doesn't buy the cheapest things, but we focus on the most value for money 
- YouTube and homework is our best friend. But we need to touch, feel and experience before we make decisions 
- we are both stubborn/determined and have high personal expectations. We should learn to lean onto other external parties (circa self care) 

Everyday I love you, and us more and more. I couldn't be more contented. Thank you for being in my life dear dear!  ^^

Sk



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