The little things in life. =)

Dad. I suppose, that's the single most defining event of the year. Catastrophic. 老爸啊，你的过世让今年所发生的一切·有了不一样的转折。如果不是因为你，我想我应该还是会像以前一样，让今年又在匆匆忙忙的工作与朋友之间消耗掉。我想，这让为成长了不少，也让我定下了不少。可是，我真的好想你啊。 Daddy's passing redefined a lot of things for me. how important family is; how i should cherish the time i have with my mum; how i should not take anything for granted; how to be more cautious, yet aggressive about the people i need to protect.  Through that, i also grew to realise that there are many things that I will be too time-poor to handle later, therein affecting the way I manage my work. I begin to realise and accept the fact that I not a superhuman, that sometimes responsibly saying no is the right thing to do, that some painful decisions must be dealt with head on, so that i can protect my responsibility to the people who matter to me. In 2017, I have grown a lot. But the expense of my innocence, is vast too. Consistently, the closure of every year has always been pleasant. When...